The best advice I can give is what I had to tell myself. I am 23 and have only had 2 relationships and all through high school all my friends had lots of boyfriends and girlfriends and nobody ever was interested in me. I was crushed so many times and rejected by people who led me on or used me. After my first relationship ended and it ended badly I was so depressed and felt so worthless and undesired. I desperately wanted to find love and I felt that it was the only thing that would make me whole. Any guy that said hi to me I was already planning the wedding...it was ridiculous. The day I stopped looking, I came to peace with the fact that if I kept desperately searching nothing was going to come my way. I gave up truly and accepted the fact that it might be a long time, if ever, before I meet someone who would want to love me. I stopped looking, and then I met my current boyfriend of nearly 5 years. Everybody I know who is desperately searching isn't meeting anyone...it's when you stop looking that the right person will walk into your life. And relationships wont fix you, they wont make your life easier. My relationship is work every single day, especially with my health concerns. The best thing to do is find out what makes YOU a great desirable person and once you realize those things, others will take notice as well.