Hi Nicole --

I can only share what my experiences have been.

1. Whenever I have felt that a bf, boss, or gf wanted out of the relationship, the intuition was correct.

2. Once the other person has made the "I want out" decision, there is nothing I can do to change that. I cannot make another person love, like, or respect me. Trying to please the Other may postpone the decision, but the mental list of "reasons to leave (or fire me)" is still being kept.

3. In personal relationships, the friendships that the bf has before meeting me are the ones that will be functional after he dumps me.

Trust your instincts. Be true to your authentic self.