thanks sky. i have a problem identifying 'gut feeling' i guess. sometimes im sure theres a connection there (like this week in T) but the very next week i cna be equally certain theres nothing. i cant tell if thats gut instinct or my own distorted reactions. course also when im sure theres a connection am i just fooling myself because really its just me feeling it and the other person actually feels nothing about it? complicated complicated! lol. i really have to think about this more before i see T next but after my next couple of exams.
thanks for replying. (and i love that little wavy smiley. )