Cantexplain - I hope you get a better ending and more understanding too, because I'm sure a bad ending to such a long relationship is not good. But, I would be careful how you phrase it in the email if you want her to schedule you... that's just my gut feeling. If you tell her you're a "yes" person and the next time she hears from you it will be to schedule your appointment, I fear that will not go over well. FYI, that would piss me the hell off.