hi pinksoil. that sounds like a really great moment with your T. sometimes i wonder since i have so much difficulty understanding myself how can she understand but then theres the odd thing she says that gets me thinking 'hmmm... now where did that come from unless she knows what im thinking...' its great.
im glad im not the only one who has a 'problem' with the idea of their T having 'someone else' for lack of a better phrase! do you think its a bad thing to have an unrealistic view? but it feels safer that way... im totally with you about wanting to jump out the window rather than go into detail like that with her though. though my T works in a bungalow... but still! even if it was several stories higher! lol.
thanks for you input. its hugely appreciated.
take care