hmmm... thats an interesting take on 'connection'... those things are something i dont usually get with people until ive known them years though... which doesnt help me with recognising it early on... but then it begs the question that maybe im just too standoffish to let those things develop earlier? trust issues? hmmmm... thanks for those thoughts.
as far as i know sandtray therapy is where the T literally has a big tray of sand with a range of figures and objects in the room that you position wherever you want in the tray. the figures you pick and the position you put them in apparently allows the T to point out things and understand you better... thats about all i know about it! lol. sorry. not much help. maybe try searching this site or google for more info? actually if you started a thread here no doubt you would get a lot of info and feedback on it. id be fascinated to try it but not sure it would work since id be so self conscious about what i was doing... i suggest it would work better the less you know of it...
anyway thanks again.
take care