Thanks to all who took the time to respond.

HazelGirl, some trauma work, but maybe not enough. Worth revisiting perhaps.

NWgirl, I see your point, but I don't think I am strong enough to take a complete break.

Clinpsy, thanks for your support.

Update: Had a session again yesterday and talked about the situation a little more. I feel a little better. I think she was reassuring with how she felt about me and how she wasn't going to abandon me. Because I was feeling tons of shame and my fear of abandonment was kicked into high gear. She did seem to really rely on my to fix the problem and come up with a new approach. I wasn't quite sure to do that because, after all, she's the T here!

I didn't mention the idea of getting a consultation yet. I considered it, but then backed off because I didn't want to offend her. I think I was secretly hoping she would come up with that idea herself. But, now that I feel a little reassured I think I can bring it up next time. I also have been reflecting a little since the appt and have some "mini-strategies" which might help.

Thanks again, folks.