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Old Jun 05, 2014, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted by tinyrabbit View Post
I don't speak to my family of origin because they are all toxic and horrible. And while I think it's great to have perspective, the problem is that my T is a really great person who I feel very close to, and I can't stand the idea of having to lose him one day. Maybe I'll just go to therapy forever.
I have this issue too, and it is very hard for me. I've always felt like my neediness stems from not having a family that loved me, so I always felt so desperate and alone. I've felt like I needed a person to "anchor" me in life, and right now that seems to be my T, which is a far second best to having a real family.
Thanks for this!
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