lol perna. id introduce you but i think ireland might be a bit far for you to come for therapy??
it sounds to me that the other student likes you as much as you like her i have to say. in fact it sounds like you have a really good friendship starting there. good for you!
heres an example of why i get so confused about these things. theres a gay guy in my class and whenever he would see me he d get this big smile on his face and say a warm hello and we would go have lunch together or go out together in the evenings. of course i thought maybe he likes he and we could actually be friends which would be cool since i dont have any gay friends but i was so nervous i was certain i was going to mess it up. then i figure i must have messed it up somehow cos now hes not texting or ringing me at all. i saw him a few days ago for the first time in weeks and all he said was 'hi' with this kind of frozen smile and then got away as quickly as possible. also he crossed the street directly in front of me the other day and i know he saw me but totally ignored me and kept looking the other way. does that mean the connection wasnt there in the first place and it was just me liking him? then maybe he realised i liked him as a friend and backed off because he never liked me? or maybe i did something i dont know about? maybe he just got to know me better and got scared off?
but just to really complicate matters he sent me a brief text on thursday saying he was in a club if i wanted to join him. i said no.
so basically was there a connection there as i thought and i ruined it or was there never a connection at all and it was just in my mind?? this seems to happen a lot.

edited to add that im a horrible dolt. the poor guy lost his mother a few weeks ago and he has almost no contact with his dad so that might be why hes acting like this. i was thinking about that as i was writing and about how pathetically self centered i am to be thinking any of the above when hes going through so much but i forgot you guys didnt know that already.