Maybe I am taking it the wrong way, but your message feels passive agressive to me. You start out saying how much you liked her reply and that it made you feel really good! Then you tell her she handled your therapy wrong, and your other t agrees. You tell her you don't want to take her advice, that working things out with her is impossible, and that you will arrange for a termination session. Then you sign it "Lots of love." If I were the t, I would feel confused and wonder what the "message" is behind your actual message.

But I could be totally wrong. I hope you don't feel like I am finding fault because I relate to alot of your experiences in therapy and how you feel. I'm just saying how your message sounds to me.