Hi greenpunkergirl,
Nope. I don't get men. When I was a small girl, I adored my father who was alcoholic. From my teenage years on, I realized he was very selfish and not trustworthy, but I still loved him. I didn't learn anything about relationships. I certainly didn't know how to read if men were truly interested or what the signals were. . I don't think women are more needy than men. Perhaps we show it or act needy more, but it's a human need. Have some fun planned for yourself or friends this weekend, maybe start chatting with someone else, male or female. I glad you were safe about meeting him. I wasn't always that smart, but I was lucky.

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