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This attachment was created my me apparently and it is up to me to get myself out of it so that he and I can advance therapeutically.

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almedafan, the attachment is at the heart of the therapy. Just allow yourself to "go with it." You've said things before that suggested your T was unwilling to engage in the transference. Is it your T telling you that you can't move forward in therapy if you are attached to him? Or is that your idea? I think this is a key issue that you need to discuss with your T. I am firmly attached to my T, and we are making great progress in therapy. I hope you can get to the heart of this.

((((almedafan))))