Hey. My boyfriend has lied to me twice in a year and half. I caught him both times. The first time was texting a girl (nothing sexual). Second it was about money. It's not that I snooped on him, he actually led me to the lies. Anyway, today he told me that I use him for money. This man has talked about marrying me. About having kids with me and spending the rest of his life with me. But then he basically called me a gold digger and he doesn't even have the much money. I don't have a job right now so he helps me and I try to help him in any other way I can. I take care of him, clean for him, cook for him and give back rubs. I try to show him how much I appreciate what he does. But then he says that to me. I just don't know what to do. I don't like lies and I don't like being hurt. He wants to try to make it work and apologized but I don't know if I can do this anymore. I love him more than I've ever loved anyone. Please any suggestions? He doesn't understand my bipolar either. And says it's not real so that makes things harder on me to. I'm trying to get him to understand but it's not working...