Years ago, my main T said that we sometimes flirt with each other. I was horrified, until I realized he would never act on it, that I was just trying out different behaviors on someone I was feeling attached to. To him, I was "confused".

He also likes an actress, who, in my youth, I somewhat resembled. So I have an inkling that he may have felt a twinge of something-something. He's an ethical guy and nothing came of it.