yesterday i was supposed to have an evening class but it got cancelled. my t and i had planned on not talking for a few days because of the class
since it was cancelled i gave t a call. she answered and said "oh hejdo! i didnt expect to hear from you today!" and we ended up talking for three hours. she said it was totally ok for me to call her and i can try calling any time i need to and if she is free to talk then she will. she said that the other day one of our younger alters called her late at night (i hate it when they do that!) but it was ok with her and they had a good long talk).
i wish my t wasnt in another country still (long standing family emergency going on there that took t away from home) but i really appreciate it when she makes herself available whenever she can