I do not feel unequal to the therapist. And it does not bother me to have that time focussed on me. But I don't usually worry that much about other people - I assume most adults can take care of themselves and don't need me to do it in a general way. I don't really jump in to care taking mode as a default position (I mean I will take care of people if I can if there is distress like bleeding, or a death or something) - I also do not like to have others "care take" me - so why would I inflict it on someone else is sort of my approach. I don't see the therapist as caring towards me or at me at appointments.