atomicc. I admire you for helping out with you gramdma. That is not an easy task. I helped take care of my dad as long as he was able to stay at home and he would saw some of the most offensive stuff. I just learned to ignore him most of the time and kept reminding myself that often he was in another world. So I know how hard a job watching the elderly can be. Kudos to you.

Your boyfriend was a jerk and i would probably said the same thing. Hope things have smoothed down, even though, if you want to get married someday, I might start looking for someone else.

Besure to take care of yourself. Let what you grandma says go in one hear and out the other.