My T has occasionally recommended books to me. One that I recall in particular is "Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway," by Susan Jeffers. T has let me borrow books I've seen on her bookshelves. Also, I have recommended many books to T (I am a librarian, btw.), and 1 of them I even gifted her with: after she'd borrowed it and kept forgetting to return it to me, I told her to keep it. Even though it's got notes in it (from college. it's a Polish novel in English translation.), it makes me happy to know she's got it at home, with "her stuff."