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Old Jun 06, 2014, 10:49 AM
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Point 1. You have a job. Lots of people would give a lot to be able to say that. I would guess that most people either don't like, hate, are bored with their job or would rather do someting else. So you're not alone there. try everything you can to make it better. If you can't look for another job. As the op said it's easier getting another job while you are in one.
point 2. Make friends. Not easy i know but it can be done. Join clubs ( meetup.com is great for that). Be positive and interested in other people. People like positive people. Are there any people at work that you get on with. If so suggest meeting out of work, could be anything you both like doing. Force yourself to go out and meet people and do things.
point 3. Go on a dating site . I would say Ok Cupid is pretty good. Take some great pictures and write a great and interesting profile. I did and got together with someone after a few months. It's pretty shallow and looks count for a lot ( were all pretty shallow) but there are woman that look beyond appearances and the more you message the greater your chances of a response. Ity's a numbers game and online dating is the easiest way. You can pay of course but i wouldn't bother.
Point4. It sucks big time to look older than you are. I know. I started losing my hair in my late teens ( i'm 58 now)and from then everyone thought i was older than i was. But shaven heads these days are de rigeur and a lot of women like bald heads so don't worry about your looks.

Have confidence in yourself. I know i'm a great guy and all those women that base their judgement on how i look are missing out. I have 2 houses, money. i'm easy going, like a laugh etc etc so it's their loss. That's how you should feel. I'M A GREAT GUY. IT'S THEIR LOSS. Good luck. LIfe goes on. Yeah you could kill yourself but then you lose the chance of things getting better for you. Change your mindset and they will. I gurantee it.
Thanks for this!
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