I kinda feel the same way, but I wonder what I did wrong becaue that's the way I think. I have 3 people I call friends, but I don't know why. They never call or come see me, it's always me that calls or goes by to check on them. They always seem to be glad to hear from me but I don't feel valuable in their lives. Now we are all getting older and having health problems, which seems to me to be even more important to stay in touch, but I'm tired of being the only one who seems to care. I look at myself trying to figure out what happened but have just given up on having caring friends. Everything seems so superficial. So Texas isn't without it's friend problems either.