yes, im totally a caretaker, and she and previous t called me out on it, I feel very selfish sometimes, that its all about me, even though she discloses about herself, I hate it when she says I am her priority, i get upset. I always ask how she is doing, or how her weekend was, she tells me, but it is followed by, well I am concerned about how you are and how your week was, this is about you not me.