That does not make any sense in response to a question about how she misunderstands you.

I have most often seen the expression used by clients who want the therapist to "meet them where they are at," and most times I see it, it seems to be that the person means they want the therapist to tolerate or excuse behavior the therapist seems to find unacceptable. [That is ONLY my impression and not an attack or an accusation about any person on here. I have absolutely NO ONE on here in mind while typing this. Seriously.]