SD...

My xT had said something similar when we were looking back on things and I asked why he didnt say/do something differently at the beginning of therapy that he did later in therapy...and he said he was meeting me where I was at...at that time...

T2 did not use those words but when I had thoughts/beliefs/perspective different than her's...she would say well I dont see it as you do but lets look at it through your lenses and then lets look at i through my lenses..

Maybe its one of those kind of things...where she doesnt see it the way you do.... Not because you didnt explain it right but her view of world is just different but shes trying to understand your view while trying to see if you are open to seeing another perspective.