thank you for your post. yes i do not think i have had the pleasure of chatting with you. however, the people i am referring to chat with me then turn around and talk crap about me to other people. that is what i find most insulting. that is why i am asking that they refrain from chatting with me as i will refrain from chatting with them to avoid this problem. i like honesty. i prefer for someone to tell me " hey agony i think you are full of it" or whatever it is they feel about me, than chat with me and tell me how much they like me blah blah blah... you know what i mean