It is OK cat_eye... and welcome to the forums here.
I want to make clear that it is OK to discuss your problems with men here, that is what this place is about. The language in your post did upset some people because it was a blanket statement about men, obviously you needed to vent.
I didn't want you to think that you could not bring up the subject at all here... if talking about it and the reasons behind it will help you.
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