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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Ummm I'm having a hard time finding what your questions are in this post. I understand it's a hard situation and I'm sorry for that but I see the situation you've been through and what you've done to remedy it but don't see a question?
What is it you need advice on?
Seems to me she's proven to be abusive and hurtful to you time and again and if your question is whether to give her another chance, i am one to believe that it's best to give people as many chances that it takes but at some point, if they prove that there is no change, walk away again. Period. Doesn't matter if it's a blood relative, close friend or otherwise. All those ties mean nothing if the relationship is toxic and or abusive.
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The questions being asked here, "Is there anyone willing to offer input or advice who can speak from experience as a mother diagnosed with BPD." and "Is it possible that one with this diagnosis not know or remember their abusive behavior?"
I think the real purpose of this exercise (and thread) is working my way toward accepting things for the way they are. The reason that's such a struggle for me, as I think it is for most people, is acceptance is usually the final stage in the process of healing, and also the most difficult and painful for some - at least it is for me.
Thanks.
