Ah! I recognize the quote in your sig, Bloo--it was from the big Billy and Mandy movie thingie, right? XD While I'm not a fan of the show, the Dracula bit was really funny.
Hmm... men are from Mars, women from Venus, eh?

I know that I'd read about girls not getting diagnosed as often as boys somewhere, but thanks for reminding me--I'd totally forgotten about it. That actually makes a lot of sense considering my case, because while the guy who checked me out when I was younger noted that I'd fidget, make little noises or play with my hair/fingers/pencil etc. while I was having trouble with something, he (once again) didn't tie it to ADD.
And the difference between our "do it myself" mantras: you actually DO it, I just freak out and mess up a lot. XD Hehe. Still, it is INCREDIBLE to me that you managed all that AT ONCE, especially dealing with all the demands of a mother!! You're an inspiration, and I honestly can't thank you enough for all the help!!