Thread: Am I hopeless?
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Old Jun 06, 2014, 08:25 PM
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According to Relationship Therapy, the avoidance problem runs deep and goes way back. By having a relationship with the therapist, you address those deep, hurt feelings caused by relationship failures with parents or early caregivers. Out of the therapy relationship the feelings are healed to the core. It's a lot more than just learning how to act, or just going out and practicing at being sociable. With the deep healing, your feelings change and caring for others flows naturally from that.
Thanks for this!
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