Does anyone ever wonder about their T's life outside of therapy and fantasize about how it's perfect/awesome?

The funny thing is, my T is definitely not a blank slate. She doesn't over share, but she doesn't go out of her way to hide things, and in reality, I know that her life isn't perfect.

I know about some hard things she's dealt with (not in an inappropriate way)....but even though I know that her life isn't perfect, I have this fantasy that it is. She has a perfect relationship with her amazing significant other, and that in her free time, she is always busy doing something cool/meaningful. She has great relationships with her amazing family (in my imagination).

There is no way that she ever just sits around on a Sunday watching TV in her pjs-she's always traveling somewhere, or seeing a play, or going wine tasting....

(I tend to think these things when I'm sitting around in MY pjs on a Sunday, btw )

Even though I know it's a fantasy, when I think about this, I feel jealous and overwhelmed...like, omg, she must have this amazing life that I can never have/attain.

Does anyone else have an idea (fantasy or otherwise) of T's life outside of therapy?

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