Thanks for the responses! I think it would be a tricky situation to be in - I have had someone in authority of me (professor) whom I fell in love with, and no way did I expect her to have any feelings for me. But when the boundaries got blurred and her feelings were involved - things got very difficult. Wasn't expecting it to happen!

I am going to be discussing with this with my former T - just "counter-transference" in general. She bought it up very early on in therapy which I never initiated - so I feel she knew what was going on, but never talked about it.... until after I terminated :/
Should be an interesting conversation!