I tell the woman things such as when I was hit by a car and was rather shaken up. I had to go be in charge of a student thing and was shaking. I did want to tell someone and other real people or even the other therapist, would have interfered or tried to take care of me and it would have been awful. So I called and left her a message because I knew she would stay back. I wrote her an email later to say nothing major was broken and she responded by telling me something awful had befallen her pet that day too.