He never said why. I wasn't technically in therapy with him, he had agreed to meet up with me after I contacted him 2 years ago. He had been my t as a teen and we had kept in touch (over a span of 16 years now) and so no we did not have "termination sessions." He didn't even say goodbye or that he was leaving, I just assume he has since I haven't heard from him, and because of my horribleness and neediness, not to mention all my transference. I scared him away. My new t picked up on this right away. When he asked if I had been attracted to my ex-t, and I said yes, new t said that ex-t must have been scared.

For all I know, maybe he has moved out of state by now. Maybe he ran like h*** to get as far away from me as possible.