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Old Jun 07, 2014, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted by A Red Panda View Post
Well, do you only have vaginal sex? Like... has he ever gave your oral?

If he hasn't gave your oral or a hand job... and if you've never masturbated... then it might not even be the meds.

Like... I've never orgasmed from vaginal sex. I'm capable of orgasms, but it just doesn't happen (at least not yet! Never know! I get a lot of anxiety during sex as well and I tend to lose focus). But even without it... I still thoroughly enjoy having sex. It feels good physically and it feels nice ....




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Originally Posted by Blitter2014 View Post
You can discuss it with your boyfriend, and give yourself some time. I come from an older generation, one where commitment came before sex. Your boyfriend should be your best friend also....and if he is....he won't be selfish enough to have sex if it is causing you concern or even worse anxiety.
I agree. We did have a serious talk today, about it. He insisted that I make him happy in our relationship even aside from the physical part. He told me that whenever I was ready again that would be fine. He did seem a little concerned, but heck, he is a hormonal 19 year old.
I do agree with the commitment part. Because of my anxiety I have trouble making and keeping friends , so when I started talking to him more and he told me he had anxiety problems, we went fishing and relaxed, went to the river a couple times, and eventually he asked me to be his girlfriend. I admit we did begin sleeping together earlier in the relationship than I would have liked, but we both wanted it, and we were committed and best friends and could laugh and talk for hours.

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