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Old Jun 07, 2014, 03:28 AM
Confusedinomicon Confusedinomicon is offline
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Do you actually enjoy having sex or is it something you do because it's expected? (I'm asking because you may lie on the asexual spectrum)

If you are into kink and your fiancé is then don't be ashamed of what turns you on. It might be a good idea to discuss safety and performing kink in a consensual way. There's nothing wrong with enjoying submissive behavior. The way you describe it didn't sound safe though. Also kink does not necessarily mean sex is involved for some people.

Masturbating together could also work.
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