I think you hit the nail on the head, JustShakey!

It is incredibly damaging. I think I perhaps mentioned this in a previous post (so sorry if I am repeating myself!) but she meantioned after we ended that she terminated me suspecting that I was being reinforced by just being around her. But also because I was doing well and was nearing the end of therapy.

Actually, I felt quite betrayed that she never told me this. If I wasn't doing well - would she have still terminated me? Seems to me know that it was her "opportunity" to terminate me as soon as I said, "I am doing well" with her saying - "It's so expensive anyway" Jeez..... making it sound better that I am out of there?! I didn't even know that was my termination appt - she had everything for me ready to fill out.

Angelicgoldfish05 - Yes, I will make sure to update you all on the session! I am surprised she wanted to even see me again. My PDoc said, "We both needed to talk it through" - so that is what will happen! And I fully understand when you say about a counter-transference admittance from T - it is difficult either way!
For myself, I really don't mind HOW she was feeling - IF it was anything at all. I feel though it is important to understand why things happened the way they did. Perhaps I am becoming too psychologist-y on her?
I think if she had feelings - it would have been incredibly challenging for me, as I was already dealing with an ex-professor that me and her had strong feelings towards each other. I was struggling to accept my sexuality too - so if I had to put myself into her perspective and I had feelings towards the client with these issues - I would very much struggle with it. (If I was straight and having these feelings for the first time too, its tough) The client is struggling, the T is struggling... the only way to 'fix' it - is to not see that person again.
Things get VERY messy - very quickly!

And I am not even sure how she knew that "my feelings were being reinforced by her" - we hardly talked about it. That might of not being the case at all - there could of being a range of reasons. I never gave her the line, "My feelings get stronger everytime I see you" - that was simply her educated 'guess' - or her counter-transference?