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Originally Posted by rolan86
One thing I am still uncertain on! Should I mention how I found them or know there name? I feel she might be weirded out by the fact that I found her online, or knew her name without ever talking to her. Truth is, I just stumbled upon her page by accident and was then like oh man! That's her! Should I tell her this? What if she asks me how I found her? I just feel weird about that part.
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if you always tell the truth you can never go wrong... if you fake and lie about something you'll always wonder in the back of your mind how it would have turned out had you told the truth. whereas if you tell truth you won't have that lingering thought of "what if i had told the truth."
i suppose in this situation it wouldn't be that deep as i described above however the truth you just posted in my quote isn't even that bad.. i'd go with the truth!
again, maybe any ladies reading this can correct me if i'm wrong but i think it would be flattering for a lady to know there was always a guy that wanted to meet her but for whatever reason wasn't able to make it happen.. until now.
besides, the worst thing she can do is block you. which at this point wouldn't affect you much cause you don't know her in the first place. on the other side of the spectrum, you can be meeting your future wife.
good luck!