Hello, first of all I had written a response before but I was having trouble with me computer so it didn't take.I am 40 years old and I believe you can still have a good if not excellent sexual relationship with your partner. I also know that there can be things standing in the way of a fulfilling sexual relationship.And I believe that sex with the same partner can develop like fine wine ages over time.I am a sensual person and I too would suffer emotionally greatly if my partner stopped the intimacy of sex in our relationship.And if he didn't find me attractive anymore that would just crush my ego. But the wonderment of not knowing if I was unattractive would drive me crazy and I would have to ask that very thing. But usually on the high normal the change of sexual attraction is other things.I need you to answer some questions or get some answers from your partner.

Are you both physically sexually compatible?Is it painful for her physically sometimes and how. The how part is for your knowing more than mine.Is your partner taking any medication that inhibit sexual drive? Has she been sexually violated before?If so then this will require great patience and gentleness and understanding on your part. I mention this because sometimes a secret kept can be the dividing factor of deep intimacy . Has she been raise to believe that sex is only fun for the man? And she needs to be honest with you with this question. Was there anytime when sex was good for her too? Is sex important to her and from 1to 10 how would she rate its importance?Thats enough questions fo her now, but it's a good start. And are you willing to read some books to improve your sexual relationship with her.And perhaps for the privacy of you both you rather not answer any of the questions here.Although I think many people here are also frothing at the mouth to know these very same answers in their relationship to their partner; but they can ask their partners as well.Communication is one o f the greatest keys to a thriving sexual relationship.

If you would like to ask me some questions on what keeps me happy in my sexual relationship. I will gladly answer those I am comfortable with. But it doesn't hurt to ask.
Sherry

All you have to do is let me know if you would like some book recommendations. Which some of them you should be able to get at your local library.