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Wysteria · 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Bill3

((((((Wysteria))))))

Can you remember what might have been helpful the last time this happened, four years ago?

Yes, actually I remember it clearly. He was sitting next to me and wanted to do some "empty chair" work...so he went and got a chair and banged it down in front of me (they are kind of heavy) and all the sudden I started to lose it...he looked very, very tall and again, thought he was angry and would hit me. He never would...he is so very gentle and patient with me...

This time he just turned to put down the pad and pen...like he was preparing to hit me...and in my mind I saw it coming....

I don't know...it is confusing and scary.

I'm sorry, for some reason I thought you asked what happened 4 yrs ago.... I just do not remember how we fixed it except a whole lot of time and re-trust building...and he promised not to "bang" anything big down in front of me.... I remember he seemed scared of me for a while and overly cautious like I might get up and attack him... I'm not mean or violent and would never hurt him on purpose....