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Old Jun 07, 2014, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by SilentGirl808 View Post
It wasn't just tea he offered. Right before I went into his office while carrying my bag, he asked if I wanted my water bottle as he went to get it for me but I replied that I could just leave it there in the small waiting room, and I could then tell he was feeling upset about that. It was as if he wanted to make me feel special. It always kills me to see somebody upset. It also feels like he's attracted to me; although, I imagined that when I had crushes on teachers in school. Am I allowed to ask how he's feeling? I feel like I need to discuss this, rather during our next session or by e-mail if I couldn't wait much longer.
He is probably offering some caretaking that you may have missed out on. It is easy to mistake that for romantic love.
Thanks for this!
SilentGirl808