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Old Jun 07, 2014, 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Pikku Myy View Post
I have severe issues with trust... due to previous experience... kind of afraid.
Is something developing? Hence, feeling ready?

I don't know why, on a deep cosmic level, human beings gravitate towards others that share certain characteristics and wounds, but seems common.

If you have severe trust issues, stands to reason your new partner may share this reflection with you.

I hear you about lover, yet deep intimacy will go beyond lover/friend/companion.

If you've been hurt, stands to reason, they will have been.

If intimacy has been used as a weapon, on you, the reflection will appear the same. There is bonding in intimacy, that goes beyond lover and friend and companion.

Know and understand your needs from the relationship needs list. Not knowing can hinder your emotions.



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Thanks for this!
Pikku Myy