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I wonder at times is posts like this aren't a manipulative way to round up support? I mean why not pm the person whom the problem is with?

It makes me cringe seeing posts where either one is "Oh no not you (insert your name here)you are a good friend" which means it must be "SOMEONE" why not just tell that someone instead of running to "teacher" to tell tales.

I have to ask myself at times weather people who post here are victims of their own thinking???

Now that is "Real"! but how "real" do people really want it? as Nietzsche said "How much truth can someone take"?????

I must be dense because I just don't "SEE" all the bickering that seems to get reported here?????? or is it all "backroom" stuff???????? oh someone sell tickets and let me have a couple LOL..

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Many of us here have talked to the person in which the problem was with (myself being one of them)........ so NO - posting like this is not for attention - if any thing "posting" is used as a way to clear the air so the rest of us may move forward and make PC a better place to be.
... I personally use the IGNORE button now to solve this issue.

IMHO - people should not state or assume that another is doing some thing on here just for ATTENTION, for in the end they may just be wrong and then may have stirred the pot one to many times, therefore, making an enemy for no reason what so ever.

I personally do NOT think we are victims of our own thinking (well not all the time) - but rather a victim of another persons thinking..... hence the wrong assumption thing.
Some times people believe what they want about another person and all with out asking questions to find if they are right or not.

You are not dense, you may just missed some of the stuff that has others upset........ I have seen some of it, I have been a victim to some of it, I have retaliated and made another a victim it after being attacked, - BUT now I am educated on it and I have STOPPED IT!! (at least with in my self).

LoVe,
Rhapsody -