you know then you have value women do find you attractive work on self improvement like social skills by having women who are just your friend so you can work on talking with them some of your anxiety will lesson if you can easily talk to them work on being comfortable being alone most of what you are feeling is more out of fear of being alone rather then sex realize your a complete person by yourself you will seem less clingy/needy that way and the most important thing is don't give up keep trying evan if its just self improvement it will help immensely with your emotional needs