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Originally Posted by seawhale
My problem now is my last fight with the coworker, we made a big fight over the phone, and some emails between I and him only and he threatened me that he will make a fight out of the work place, and will nominate someone to harm me someway, and after we settled the fight together, he called me again yesterday and provoked me in every way that any person can be provoked, I lost my mind and cursed him madly, then i blocked him on Facebook and his phone number as well
Now i do not know what his reaction will be, and how the new next week will be look like.
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Sorry you are feeling so low. In the case of your coworker you could send him an apology, tell him you were having a bad day and took it out on the first person that did not agree with you. Do you think it escalated to HR? If so, make sure HR knows you recognized your less than professional behavior and apologized. If you feel comfortable doing it, a verbal apology in public where others see it might get you brownie points.
As for the GF or wife.... There was a time in my 30's when I was convinced I was better off in a relationship than alone. Consequently I had a number of less than healthy relationships. My last BF ended up killing himself. That put an end to my dating. I thought I was somehow responsible for his death. Now I have a cat that I adore and he gives me unconditional love. He also has helped with my depression and my suicide ideations. I still would like to find my soulmate but now that I realized I can live on my own and not be lonely I am more selective.
If you can't have a furry companion try visiting the animal shelter. The animals there are starving for love and will return the love a thousand fold.
Good luck!
PS, you don't want to die if you posted your "desire" on this forum. Usually people who say things like that are really asking for help, I should know, I've done it a couple of times in the past.