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Old Jun 08, 2014, 01:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Claritytoo
I know my t is trying to help but I don't fully trust her. And some of us don't trust her at all. We are better off because of her and I remind the others when we start to get too distrustful. The ones in the world trust her and that helps the rest of us a lot. I think we are coming close to the little ones talking to t. I think that is one of the reasons there is a strong push by the others to leave therapy. Some really want to leave therapy but the little ones don't. I feel like crying right now
Main thing is, trust is something you choose, and little ones often want to be able to trust with their whole hearts - this can make others very anxious and afraid. Just try not to make any sudden moves on this, but allow things to settle a bit. I found building communication between selves vital, healing is such hard work and you need to rest a lot, too.