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Originally Posted by live2ski66
Sorry you are feeling so low. In the case of your coworker you could send him an apology, tell him you were having a bad day and took it out on the first person that did not agree with you. Do you think it escalated to HR? If so, make sure HR knows you recognized your less than professional behavior and apologized. If you feel comfortable doing it, a verbal apology in public where others see it might get you brownie points.
As for the GF or wife.... There was a time in my 30's when I was convinced I was better off in a relationship than alone. Consequently I had a number of less than healthy relationships. My last BF ended up killing himself. That put an end to my dating. I thought I was somehow responsible for his death. Now I have a cat that I adore and he gives me unconditional love. He also has helped with my depression and my suicide ideations. I still would like to find my soulmate but now that I realized I can live on my own and not be lonely I am more selective.
If you can't have a furry companion try visiting the animal shelter. The animals there are starving for love and will return the love a thousand fold.
Good luck!
PS, you don't want to die if you posted your "desire" on this forum. Usually people who say things like that are really asking for help, I should know, I've done it a couple of times in the past.
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Many thanks for your advice, I do not know whether it got escalated to HR or not, I will know tomorrow, but I am sure that he was calling me to just provoke me, no more, may be he was recording the phone call, he is the guilty he is ill selfish person, and i did not curse him in front of others to apology in front of others, moreover he was replying me and cursing back for sure, i should have ended the call once he started his silly talk.
The story you mentioned regarding your boy friend is so tragical, please forget the story and find new love you deserve to be always happy.
Sometimes I really feel that I want to tightly hug a girl I love, give her care and feelings, and make her feel safe, lack of being in love is somewhat really painful.
I have a pet cat and her daughter living with me and the family, although I love dogs more because they are so loyal and intelligent, but I love the two cats so much, once I feel one of them is sick i take her to the vet immediately, caring for them in every way a pet can be cared for, they will never hurt or harm me, I feel peace with them, and really sympathize with them because sometimes they cannot express their feelings or needs, they just meow and I keep looking for what might be missing.
Best wishes to you too.