I don't imagine ANYBODY can feel aroused when they feel forced into an "intimate" situation...

Arousal with a partner is so much more intricate than touching the right body parts.

Until you experience true intimacy with a man, which means its 100% your choice, you're attracted to eachother, there's no alcohol involved for courage etc, until then I think it will be truly difficult to be clear about your sexual orientation...

It saddens me that you don't think you could or should say "no", and that you believe saying it won't matter.

Your opinion of men will never change if you never give men the opportunity to show you some respect.

And by that I don't mean you're inviting any disrespect. What I mean is that if you don't ever say "no", how will you ever see a man respect that no?

Not all men are the same.