wow~ what she said about your ex was mean spirited. My sisters and I don't treat each other like that but my trauma had nothing to do with my family and that probably helps because we have different needs.

My sisters are a bit hateful though and I know that was from our family dysfunction. It makes it hard because when I am around them I find myself grateful for my trauma and that makes me sick!

I think its great that you have learning to take care of yourself and hopefully your sister will learn to take care of her needs as well.