Do you feel like this connection is "missing" from your life, or do you feel like therapy is just as effective without it? I'm not particularly attached to my T, but I've still figured out some things since I started seeing her. So to me, therapy is effective... it's just that I figure most of it out by myself when I'm not with her.

Are you working on things without the connection, or do you feel like you need a connection to make progress?