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Old Jun 08, 2014, 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted by debramorgan42 View Post
I am very close to give up.... because I'm not fine aswell..... even though breaking up will kindof destroy me.... but at least that is repairable
I've been known to give this advice and will give it to you, as I feel it applies.

How can you leave, if you don't know how to 'stay' .

Here's what I mean. You state you love him, yet, he has an illness that hinders happiness through dysfunction in your relationship. Staying, involves working on yourself. You matter. In doing so, you'll reach a point, of knowing why you stay. If, as you discover, all you try isn't working. Moving forward, you have skills, that you didn't possess previously. And, from there, all in your love life, is by choice. No more, anxiety, for fearing how to handle another's illness. Because, statistically speaking, bound to find another with an illness.

Hope that sheds insight.


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