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Old Jun 08, 2014, 07:06 PM
Claritytoo Claritytoo is offline
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Originally Posted by artyaspie View Post
Main thing is, trust is something you choose, and little ones often want to be able to trust with their whole hearts - this can make others very anxious and afraid. Just try not to make any sudden moves on this, but allow things to settle a bit. I found building communication between selves vital, healing is such hard work and you need to rest a lot, too.
This is very good advice. You are right when you say the others are afraid. They are and the fear is what causes the others to get angry. We are all afraid of what the little ones will say. Not so much what happened, I think we kind of know, but the emotion and physical pain that will come with knowing.